En las ultimas semanas del embarazo me estaba ya muy pesada la barriga, y ademas la nena no paraba de saltar, bailar y estirarse ahi dentro, lo que dolio mucho. Asi que estaba intentando de todo para que saliera ya, pero no habia forma. Nos
fuimos a ver el castillo de Seebenstein, a media hora lo menos para arriba en la montana, pero nada.
Una amiga nuestra que es matrona, me dijo una infusion y un baño que se podia preparar con ciertas hierbas para acelerar que viniera. Asi que eso lo empeze, el dia que cumplí, el 17 de agosto. Me hubiera encantado que naciera ese dia, porque es el cumpleaños de mi abuela que se ha muerto el dia 1 de agosto. Bueno, pues el viernes, diecinueve, por la mañana, tiré el tapón mucoso, y a las horas empezé con contracciones muy leves. Pero como las tenía ya antes y despues pararon otra vez, no pensé mucho de ello. Cociné para los misioneros todavia, que vinieron a mediodía, y ya un poquito mas fuerte, pero todavia no creí que fuera a algo. Por la noche desde las 8 o algo ya eran algo mas notables, y ya a las 10 dije que alomejor sería bueno, que mi madre se viniera a dormir, por si acaso, para estar con Lorena y Nerea.
La llamé y dijé que no habia prisa, pero que a lo mejor que se viniese. A los 15 minutos se vinieron ya ella y mi hermana, que estaba con ella en ese momento, para ver si podía hacer algo. En ese momento tenía ya las contracciones algo mas fuerte, pero nada regular. Mi madre dijo, pues iros a ver si hay algo, y sino nos volvieramos otra vez. Asi que a las 11 y media mi hermana nos trajo al hospital y se fue para su casa (tiene 15 minutos de camino). La matrona estaba un poco esceptica cuando le dije que queria ver si estaba ya, porque no habian contracciones regulares, pero como le dije que ya era la tercera, pues nada. En explorarme estaba ya casi de 5 centimetros y me dijo, bueno que empuja muy fuerte, esta.
Las contracciones en ese momento, eran ya para concentrarse o sea, bastante fuertes. Y nada, a lo poco ya tenia ganas de empujar y casi no llegué al paritorio (que era al lado) y 3 empujones y la nena ya salio. Eso era a las 0:09, 40 minutos despues de que hemos entrado por la puerta!
Me era mas facil que con Nerea, la verdad. Me pusieron a la nena enseguida en la barriga y no cortaron el cordón umbilical hasta un buen rato despues.
Cuando JoseCarlos llamó a mi madre y mi hermana que ya estaba el bebe, no se lo podieron creer! Mi hermana no habia llegado a su casa no hace mucho!
La verdad que puedo decir, que para mi, dar a luz es una experiencia única y maravillosa! Me parece increible cada vez que miro a Michelle, que ese ser estaba dentro de mí, que se desarrolló de una semilla pequeñisima, y luego sale una personita!
Solo se puede decir que Dios es grande que nos permite como mujeres compartir con el en la creación de las personas. Y es increíble el amor que se puede tener por esos seres!
Le pusimos Michelle por nombre y por segundo nombre Elena, en honor a mi abuela Helene, que falleció 20 dias antes de conocer a su bisnieta en vida (seguramente se conocieron en el cielo!) y era/es una persona maravillosa y bella, la perfecta abuela!
In the last weeks of pregnancy I was already very uncomfortable, and also the baby would not stop jumping, dancing and stretching in there, which hurt a lot. So I was trying everything to get it out as soon as possible, but there was no way. We went to see the castle Seebenstein, at least half an hour up in the mountains, but nothing.
A friend of ours who is a midwife, told me of an infusion and a bath that could be prepared with certain herbs to speed up the birth. So that's what I started, the day I turned 40 weeks, on 17th of August. I would have loved it if she would have been born that day, because it is the birthday of my grandmother who died on August 1st. Well, on Friday the 19th, in the morning, I threw the mucus plug, and the hours I started with very mild contractions. But as I had that before and afterwards they stopped again, didn´t think much of it. I still cooked for the missionaries, who came at noon, and the contractions were already a little stronger, but still did not think it was anything. At night from 8 or something it was getting a bit stronger, and at 10 I said that might be good that my mom came to sleep just in case, to be with Lorena and Nerea.
I called her and said that there was no hurry, but the best thing was probably to come. 15 minutes later she came with my sister, who was with her at that moment, to see if she could do something. At that time already I had stronger contractions but nothing regular. My mother said, to go anyway to see if there was something going on, and if not we could always go home again. So at 11:30 my sister brought us to the hospital and went home (she has about a 15 minutes drive). The midwife was a bit skeptical when I told her I wanted to see if it was already, because the contractions were´nt regular, but as I said it was the third, she was okay. When she explored me I was nearly 5 cm and she said, that the baby was pushing really hard.
Contractions at the time, were now quite strong. And after a little while I had desire to push already and almost did not get to the delivery room (which was next door) and 3 pushes and the baby was out. That was at 0:09, 40 minutes after we entered the door!
It was easier than with Nerea. I immediately got the baby on the belly and they didn´t cut the umbilical cord until some time later.
When Jose called my mom and my sister to tell them that Michelle was already here, they couldn´t believe it! My sister only just came home!
The truth is that I can say that for me, giving birth is a unique and wonderful experience! I find it amazing every time I look at Michelle, that this being was inside me, that it developed from a tiny seed, and then becomes a little person!
You can only say that God is great that we as women can share with the creation of people. And it's amazing the love that you can have for these creatures!
We put her Michelle by name and for a middle name Elena, in honor of my grandmother Helene, who died 20 days before meeting her great granddaughter in life (probably they met in heaven!) And she was / is a wonderful and beautiful person, a picture-perfect Grandma!